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Couples Counseling in Southern California

Couples Counseling in Southern California

A Gentle, Insightful Approach to Healing Relationships

Relationships are built with hope — and sometimes shaken by misunderstanding, distance, or pain. If you are feeling stuck, unheard, or disconnected from your partner, know that seeking help is not a sign of failure. It's an act of hope.

At my practice in Southern California, I offer couples counseling designed to create a safe space where both partners can slow down, be heard, and rebuild the emotional bridge between them.

Each couple I meet brings a unique story, filled with shared dreams, struggles, and patterns. Together, we gently uncover those patterns and work toward communication that heals rather than hurts.

Why Couples Seek Counseling

Every couple faces moments of doubt, frustration, or loss of connection. Some of the most common reasons people seek couples therapy include:

1.

Ongoing arguments that never seem to resolve

2.

Emotional distance or growing apart

3.

Life transitions (moving, parenting, retirement) that create strain

4.

Loss of intimacy — emotionally, physically, or both

5.

Trust issues or recovering from betrayal

6.

Differences in values, priorities, or expectations

7.

Feeling like "roommates" rather than partners

If you recognize yourself in any of these, you are not alone. Many couples wait too long before reaching out. Couples counseling in California offers a path back to understanding and emotional closeness — before resentment builds too high.

How Couples Counseling Can Help

Working with a compassionate couples therapist creates an opportunity for real listening, reflection, and growth.

In our sessions, we’ll focus on:

 

  • Improving communication — saying what you truly mean, and hearing each other more clearly

  • Recognizing patterns that create distance or pain

  • Healing old wounds without blame

  • Rebuilding trust and emotional safety

  • Creating space for intimacy, appreciation, and mutual support
     

Rather than focusing on who's right or wrong, we explore how both partners contribute to the relationship’s dynamic — and how both can begin to shift it toward a healthier future.

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Dr Randi Gunther - Author, Marriage Counselor, Clinical Psychologist
My Approach to Couples Counseling

I don’t rush to label or fix. Instead, I offer a quiet space to slow down, reflect, and uncover meaning. My clients often say they feel safe — not just emotionally, but in the deep sense of being understood without needing to explain every detail.

I believe therapy is most helpful when it feels like a conversation with someone who truly sees you. Together, we uncover new ways of thinking, feeling, and relating that create lasting change.

Is Couples Counseling Right for You?

You don’t have to be on the brink of separation to benefit from counseling. Many couples I work with are simply seeking a better way forward — a way to reconnect, resolve tension, and deepen their bond.

If you’re wondering whether couples counseling in California might help, I encourage you to reach out. There’s no pressure or obligation — just an opportunity to explore whether this path feels right for you.

Healing begins with the first conversation.


If you’re ready to rebuild your connection and create a stronger partnership, I would be honored to walk that journey with you.

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Dr. Gunther is available by Zoom or Facetime

Email: randiguntherphd@gmail.com

Cell: 310-971-0228

Office: 2075 Palos Verdes Dr N, Lomita, CA 90717

Hours : By Appointment Only
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